A spider-obsessed man has 120 pet spiders which have their own bedroom in his home.
After Aaron Phoenix, 34, was told to get a hobby by his doctor's
following bipolar disorder diagnosis, he took an unusual approach by
becoming a spider dad to 120 tarantulas and has now given all the pets
their own bedroom in his house.
The creepy animals have an entire room to themselves in his house, and he dedicates all his spare time to looking after them.
According to Aaron taking care of the spiders has helped him cope with
his mental health – and sitting in the room with them is his ‘happy
place.’
‘They’re my passion, obsession, whatever you want to call it,’ says Aaron, who works as a house removal contractor.
‘The doctor told me a hobby would focus my mind – it was true, I find
them fascinating. I could sit and watch them for hours – they’ve had an
incredible effect on me and I’ll never give up owning tarantulas now.
‘People’s reactions when I tell them are fantasic – they can’t believe
it! Although I do think tarantulas are misunderstood – there’s no need
for such a fear.
‘I can’t expect everyone to see them the way I do, but I wish people would open their minds to these beautiful creatures.’
Aaron, is a step-dad to his partner’s two teen girls. He says he was
first drawn to tarantulas as a child and says he fell in love with them
when he got his first one as a teenager.
Last summer, following a diagnosis of bipolar disorder alongside a
diagnosis of depression a year earlier, therapists suggested a way to
help Aaron’s mental health would be to get a hobby.
‘When the therapist asked if there was any activity I enjoy that that might help take my mind off things, it came to me straight away,’ he says.
‘At the beginning, my partner and the kids were a bit freaked out, but
they saw the positive effect it had on me immediately and became
supportive.’
Since the summer of 2021, he has collected 120 tarantulas, alongside five other spiders, three scorpions, three praying mantises and a centipede.
They all live in separate enclosures in his spare room – known as his happy place – where he spends almost all his free time.
He says: ‘I check on them every morning and evening although if I had time, I could stand and watch for hours.
‘I’m just fascinated by them – all the different sizes and shapes and
colours. When I’m with them, whether it’s feeding, watering or rehousing
them, nothing else in the world matters.’
‘They have without a doubt changed my life – I’ve never had something I’m so passionate about before,’ says Aaron.
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